They will pretty much decide who the dominant partner is, and if you lose out during this period, I can Guaran-damn-tee, she will make you her bitch for the rest of the relationship.
That is why it's really important to watch your behaviour around her during this period. Don't go overboard in trying to please her or fit yourself in her mould of the ideal boyfriend. This applies to the entire year; be it the first, third or the tenth month.
Here are some of the worst screw-ups that men make during the first year of their relationship.
Showering her with gifts
Most men make the fatal mistake of equating the amount of money they spend with getting her to like them more. Buying her many expensive presents or always taking her out on really fancy dates is a huge mistake because it suggests that the only thing impressive about the man is his bank balance. Worse yet, the woman may start expecting gifts from him all the time and will actually stop prizing the man who is spending on the gift. Moreover, you shouldn’t always be the one paying on the dates. If your girl has a decent job, there is no reason why she can’t foot the bill once in a while. If that seems a bit too much then just go dutch.
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